Has your partner ignored your feelings?

Has your partner continually criticized you, called you names, or shouted at you?

Has your partner ridiculed or insulted your religion, race, heritage, or social class?

Has your partner withheld approval, appreciation, or affection as punishment?

Does your partner humiliate you either in private or public?

Does your partner refuse to socialize with you?

Does your partner try to keep you from working?

Does your partner try to control your money?

Does your partner control the use of protection against pregnancy?

Does your partner refuse to let you spend time alone?

Does your partner try to make all the decisions in the relationship?

Does your partner make excuses for not working?

Is it okay to spend your money, but not your partner's?

Does your partner's punishment of children seem excessive, inappropriate, or harsh?

Is your partner abusive to pets?

Does your partner blame you for everything that goes wrong?

When angry, does your partner blame you for everything that goes wrong?

Do you fear your partner's reactions?